A new chapter.

Life is like a book. Different seasons equal different chapters. We are getting ready to enter into the most unique, even extreme chapter in our life as a family. Let me share with you an announcement that we made at church today. Please pray for us, and check this blog often as I will be posting often.

In January 2005 we brought a group from Calvary to Passion Conference. One of the speakers shared about New England and how unreached the region is.

I was moved by the challenge and stood when asked to pray about launching a church there.

During this period of time we were in the middle of our adoption of our kids from Russia.

We genuinely believed we would be in Jupiter until Jesus comes back.

Flash forward to October 2009.

Pastor Jeff and I went to the Catalyst Conference. To be honest my expectations were very low, but the Lord had different plans. I randomly chose a breakout to attend. Little did I know my heart was going to be stirred so deeply.

The speaking challenged us to be have real faith. I was challenged because our last real faith move in our life was our adoption. The Lord has recently closed that chapter by providing the complete payment of our adoption debt.

Our church wide fast was the following week, October 12-14.

On Tuesday morning, early I awoke to spend some time in prayer and study when the Lord very clearly spoke to me: “Chris I want you to move to Lebanon, NH to start a church”. I was shocked and moved. I know this voice. It is the same voice that spoke to me to talk to my wife about adopting from Russia. The same voice that called me to be a pastor. The same voice that spoke to me about being the student pastor here at CJ.

It is an unmistakable voice.

On Wednesday I tried to ignore and put off the call. On Thursday I said, It was just a Fast-high!! But the whole day I kept hearing the call. I shared with my wife that day after work. She was surprised yet not shocked.

Interestingly enough we had made prior plans to have dinner with Pastor Dan and Cheryl.

I asked Dan how his fast was and he said it was good. I said, well mine was interesting and shared with him the encounter I had. He said I can see this, and believe that this could be possible. He encouraged us to seek confirmation(s).

The following days were challenging as Penny and both knew the Lord was stirring our hearts but it was not clear yet as we awaited confirmation. Penny was not at peace at all. We prayed and asked for a sign. Ten minutes later in our car Penny says “Punch buggy black, no returns!” I was immediately drawn to the license plate and the writing on the vehicle. New Hampshire plates, and advertising of the state on the vehicle.

Penny said, “I’m gonna’ be sick, that’s a sign isn’t it!” we looked at each other and knew that the Lord was doing something.

Over the next several days the Lord did a major work in our hearts for the region and our calling to go.

I kept in constant contact with Pastor Dan over the days as we were seeking the Lord.

My family confirmed the call as they have always known that the Lord has a calling on our lives.

The leadership and staff of the church have confirmed this calling.

We are excited to announce today that CJ is sending us out to be messengers to the most unreached most educated region in America.

It has been said the New England is more irreligious than Africa and Asia.

We will be leaving on January 1^st to go launch a church in the Upper Valley region of NH/Vermont.

We love our church (Calvary Jupiter), the staff congregation and the Jupiter area. This is the hardest thing we that ever done or will ever do, but our calling is greater than this love.

Pray for us as we sell everything and go. Pray that the Lord will provide opportunities, resources and all that is needed to launch a church big. Pray that the people would show us favor. That we would reach the people of the Upper Valley with Jesus and provide them the opportunity to be growing followers of Jesus.

Obsessed over football?

I really struggle with an obsession over football. I have to watch my college team on Saturday (go ‘Canes!) and of course the Dolphins draw my attention on Sundays. It has been this way in my life for countless years. I was just thinking if I were to take all of the football energy I have and apply it to things that have meaning, like family, Jesus or friends I would be a better father, husband, follower of Christ and friend to others. Maybe it’s time for a check……

Just got over the flu.

For 4 days I was laid up with the flu. The flu sucks. On Thursday I could feel my body absorb illness, to the core. By the evening I was feeling sore, my cough was uncontrollable and my head was pounding with pressure. Friday was worse, then Saturday was even worse. Sunday the swing to wellness began and by Monday I was in recovery mode. All of this to say I’m good now. Life if good. Health is good.

I’m back.

After some time off I have decided it’s time to start writing again. It’s just a matter of taking the time and I will. Hopefully some are still tuning in.

Summer ‘09

I’m thrilled. Our Student Ministry is going to have a great summer as we have our annual Summer Tour planned, but we have some amazing young interns that will be serving, leading and learning. I really can’t wait to see what the Lord does in the lives of each.  Our interns will be centered on experiencing ministry to the fullest, not necessarily just doing menial labor. All will have different responsibilities in the church aside from Students that include assisting in our Children’s Ministry, Cafe’ and Production. I’ll keep you posted : )

Student Ministry Confessional: Stress = Shingles?

Last week I had pretty much 3 days from h-e- double hockey sticks. It really had nothing to do with my job. It had everything to do with me not having a day off for 2 weeks. I paid for it. I paid greatly. Today I am nursing a stress induced case of SHINGLES because of last weeks craziness. It all started on Wednesday (5/10) when we have our large group meeting for our student ministry. At that time I was dealing with a surprise car repair in excess of 1g, 2 volunteer situations that were nagging at me (no further details), and the confusion and clutter of portable ministry. I arrived at the school we lease around 4:45 PM and one of the assistant principals was at the door of the open air campus waiting for me. He proceeded to tell me that the school had to move their NHS promotion meeting to next Wednesday (5/17) meaning we get the boot, even though we are contracted and paid. UGG! So I had to make a decision on the fly. Do we meet next week at a different location or do we just cancel. I had to know so that it could be communicated to our students that evening. I decided we would meet, at our small church facility 8 miles away. Seems natural right? Not really. Many of our student walk to our Wednesday night meeting or just stay after school and through the evening. That evening I communicated to our students that we were going on the road next week to “mix things up”. I had to be careful not to make the school sound or look bad. Everyone received this change well and the meeting came to a close. Phew….
NOT SO FAST! As soon everyone was dismissed I had a couple of leaders come to me to let me know that some students had vandalized a bathroom with markers and obscenities. Oh great, just what we need, I thought. So I walked into the bathroom with the guilty students feverishly scrubbing their names and obscenities from the bathroom wals. that was it. The back breaker. Two weeks with out a day off, volunteer situations, car problems, facility changes and no this! Crud. The days following my historic few days before revealed to some important ministry/life necessities:
1 – Take a day off, learn to say no. I have a difficult time doing that I like to make it happen and love to serve others. But not at the expense of my health and family.
2 – Don’t try to fix everything at once. I was definitely trying to fix it all at the moment. Think through it. Pray. Ask the Lord for wisdom. Continue with what you had been doing.

Me and the boys

We were just hangin’ out playing on the couch just before our evening at Cow Chicken (aka Chic-fil-A).

Summer is a comin’!

We are amping up for another big summer in Student Ministry. Here are some of our goings on and changes for the Summer of ‘09:

Summer Tour – We will take a break from our normal meetings and begin our annual Summer Tour on June 11. The Summer Tour is an on going summer program (I hate that word but it works) where we do something different each week for 8 weeks. Tour events include a local service project, a Charlie Hall led conference, game night, worship night, etc. we really have thought through each tour event to make it as cost effective as possible so that we can sell a Backstage Pass giving access to each event. It has become something that our student have really gotten into and invite friends. Another opportunity to connect with more students.

No camp – I have really wrestled with camp for a long time. To be honest with you I don’t know if camp connects with this post-Christian generation, add the outrageous price it’s not an easy sell to our students and their families.  I have taken students to camp for many years now and have decided to not do so this year.  Call me crazy or whatever, we aren’t doing it, and probably won’t do it again.

Interns – As of this post we have 2 confirmed interns joining our Leadership Team this summer. I’m so thrilled that 2 of our graduating seniors will be hired to lead, organize, learn and serve. Adam and Julia are amazing young adults who have been a part of our ministry for many years. They begin in mid May and serve thought the end of August. I really look forward to serving along side them. I will keep you updated!

Wild at Heart Retreat – In August we will be taking a smaller group of guys to northern Florida for a time of playing and training focused on the growth towards being a Godly man. Can’t wait!

Student Leadership – In August we will begin our Student Leadership Training lead by our SM interns. Another opportunity to train our students and prepare them for the upcoming school year.

Student Ministry questions?

I have been involved in student ministry in one form or fashion since 1991. My first gig as a leader of students was with a small baptist church in a semi-urban environment. We had about 15 kids in this group and I labored over what I should talk about, what games to play, etc, etc. Forward 17 years later and it seems that I labor over some similar things. Weekly I wonder if “they will show up”, will they participate in worship? Can I communicate this effectively? Will the students be “into it”? On and on. You see, we aren’t a mega-church by the standard of the church guru guys. We are an above average sized church who has been steadily growing for 11 and a half years. Our student ministry pretty much reflects the church as a whole. I am the only paid guy on our ministry team therefore I have to do a lot of the stuff. I labor over the little things. The aforementioned little things. How do I get over this? Will it every go away? What about volunteers? What about facilities? We have to rent from a local school and feel the pressure of the school admin weekly. Will the pressure go away when we have our own building? Will there be a new pressure? How about support staff. Will I ever be able to hire? If so when and who? The questions could keep coming but I will hold back. I’ll be honest, I love what I do. I seriously serve at the greatest local church ever with the greatest team ever, so I’m not disgruntled or frustrated by any means I just think these are some healthy questions. If you can answer feel free to comment.

Just a reminder….